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God designed the universe to function with natural and spiritual laws that bring freedom when obeyed, but bondage and destruction when broken and violated. (Blessing and Cursing)

 
Two souls can be knit or made to cleave together in a covenant relationship; they can also be tied or knit together to form bondage and enslavement.

GOD to make two marriage partners one flesh before GOD ordained sexual union, but promiscuous premarital affairs and extramarital affairs can mysteriously tie ones soul to many partners.

We just don’t have any conception of promiscuity (sex) outside of marriage scatters their souls and destroys their ability to commit to one partner. 

Prov 5:15-19 Drink water from your own cistern, running waters from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares?  Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers.  May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.

It is very important that married couples keep their sexual life to satisfaction, because if not the other may become strongly tempted to seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere. Remember if you are your spouse become tempted and start thinking about a picture will develop in your mind if you think on it enough.  Eventually it will manifest.

1 Cor 7:5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. KJV.

1 Cor 7:5 Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. NIV

Mat 5:27-28 "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.'  But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. NIV

Matt 5:27-28 "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. KJV

Prov 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

2 Cor 10:5-6 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;  And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled.

If you get into an affair you suffer more than you imagine.

1.You will eventually start feeling guilty after the newness wears off and the flesh is satisfied.

2.You have committed adultery and take the chance of losing your spouse.

3.Your soul has now become tied and scattered, causing confusion and strife

1 Cor 6:16-17 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh." But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit. NIV TRANSLATION

1 Cor 6:16-17 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. KJV

You may be involved or thinking of becoming involved in a sexual affair now. DON'T, you may make all kind of excuses on why you should.


Here are some common excuses that people use to justify what they are doing, but do not fall in the trap of deception

1: We are in love and it won’t hurt anything because we are going to be married someday. 

2: He said it would be ok if we did just this once and we will wait until we are married to do it again.

3.Your soul has now become tied and scattered, causing confusion and strife.

4: I won’t think badly of you, we are meant to be together.

 
5: God won’t mind because we are going to get married.

If you are already married here are some of the lies the devil can throw at you.

1: My husband doesn’t love me any more and our sexual life is the worst

2: If I have a one-night affair, no one will know. GOD DOES

3: I will get back at him and he won’t know the difference.

God says it is a sin and it will bring eventual destruction and not: blessings God never makes exceptions to his laws for you or anyone else.

A relationship began in righteous and holy actions will often bring forth blessed and holy branches, on the other hand, a relationship begun in sin and fornication will many times bring forth-evil branches and fruits. This could include adulterous cheating, divorce and even children that indulge in immortality.

Prov 5:20-22 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?  For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.  His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.

The consequences of a casual affair can be harmful and enduring. The soul ties formed can actually bind a person for life. The Word says (Rom 8:15 For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of son ship. And by him we cry, "Abba, Father."

God has so built every woman that the first man who has sex with her takes a form of dominion over her. Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

Her human spirit and soul is built to respond to the man by nurturing him, supplying affection to him and being that mans fountain of satisfaction to him all through his life.

God made woman to develop a longing desire for their first lover (supposedly their husband) Read Gen: 3:16 again.

These scriptures warnings to women:

 2 Tim 3:2-7 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. (King James Version)

NIV Translation
2 Tim 3:2-5  People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God--having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.  They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over weak-willed women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires,  always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth.

The dominion a soul tie gives a man over his lover is often so binding that he can insult and mistreat her but she seems helplessly enslaved to him. Many women will tolerate all kinds of abuse and they won’t understand why: They end up hating themselves, because they don’t understand about soul ties. Whenever you hate yourself it is hard to give real love or receive real love.

SCATTERED SOULS

People that have formed soul ties with many people through fornication and promiscuity, their souls have become fragmented and scattered among all their sexual partners.

If you are unable to give yourself fully to your mate (husband) it is because your thoughts and emotions are being continually drawn back to their past lovers. This is also adultery in your heart.

If a woman has sexual relations with several men, her spirit and soul seek out every one of them. Her spirit is scattered and torn apart

If you have ever been raped, but yet you find yourself thinking or desiring the one that raped you, it is because the two souls have knit together.

A man’s spirit is so built that for each woman he enters his spirit is built to find, protect, bless and nurture and provide for that woman. Guys have you been divorced and remarried, but you still seem to want to protect or take care of your ex-wife?

Prov 6:27-32 Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned? So he that goeth in to his neighbor’s wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.  Men do not despise a thief, if he steals to satisfy his soul when he is hungry. But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house. But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

1 Cor 6:18-19 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? KJV

People that have been promiscuous, their souls are not only drawn to all their former lovers, but when they marry they often have sexual and communication problems with their mates. They are unable to be sexually satisfied by their marriage partner because they suffer from a scattered soul and cannot share themselves fully with their mate. They often seek satisfaction, not only with multiple partners, but also through experimentation with bizarre forms of sex that may eventually lead to perversion.

1 Cor 6:16-18 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh." But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. NIV

If soul ties have not been broken in your life, here are some pointers.

1: You had no knowledge or understanding of soul ties.

 2: You have never dealt with getting rid of your past.

3: You have not let go of emotional attachments, memories and fantasies.

Multiple soul ties will weaken your character, your will, your emotions and your mind to the point that a decision to be free is difficult to make.

Prov 6:32 but whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

Lust and sin are gratifying for the moment, but a person always pays later in shame, guilt, humiliation, and anger towards God, sorrow and torment. Sometimes we don’t see that we are involved in those things because of denial. We tell ourselves that there is nothing in our past to deal with and we don’t want to change. Fear of change keeps you in bondage and fear is not of the Lord. Years of sin have weakened our character to the point of destroying the desires for good and making it difficult to change.

There is HOPE (blueprint, picture) and that is Jesus. If you make him the Lord of your life and serve Him with all your heart, you can and will be set free if you believe and receive. You can be set totally free if you allow God to set you free, but He gives us a choice. He won’t make us do anything we do not want to do.

John 8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed

Mark 11:24-25 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.

Before you pray the prayer below, please take a few moments to forgive all that has hurt you in any way, whether it be mentally or physically. Even though you do not think that they deserve forgiveness, you have to do it to receive your forgiveness. We did not deserve forgiveness from the Father, but His grace, mercy and His love for us was enough.

LET US PRAY IN FAITH, RECEIVING

Father, in the name of JESUS, I submit my soul, my desires and my emotions to your Spirit.  I confess, as sin, all my promiscuous, premarital sexual relationships and all sexual relationships outside of marriage. I confess all my ungodly spirit, soul, and body ties as sin. I thank you for forgiving me and cleansing me right now!

“Father, thank you for giving me the keys of your kingdom, the keys of spiritual authority. What I bind is bound and what I loose is loosed. In Jesus name, I ask you to loose me from all soulish ties to past partners and ungodly relationships. Please uproot all the tentacles of sexual bondage, of emotional longings and dependencies, and enslaving thoughts. I bind, renounce and resist any evil spirits that have reinforced those soul ties or may have been transferred to me through evil associations.

Please cleanse my soul and help me to forget all illicit unions so that I am free to give my soul totally to my mate. Father, I receive your forgiveness for all past sex sins. I believe I am totally forgiven. Thank you for remembering my sins no more. Thank you for cleansing me from all unrighteousness. I commit myself to you by your grace; please keep me holy in my spirit, soul, and body. I praise you. In Jesus name. AMEN.
 
I have a personal testimony on deliverance of soul ties and I have worked with women in a ladies Hope group and have witnessed their deliverance. They are very real and can be emotionally destructive. My heart really longs to see people set free from these soul ties.

If there are times that you seem to feel like you don’t know who you are and going in so many different directions, well you probably are soul tied.

Always remember that: John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

John 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.

Yes God did that just for you, because He loves you no matter what!!!!!!!

The Holy Spirit shared this illustration with me and I want to share it with you.  It will show that before we can cleave, (be tied to) someone new, you have to let go of the old first.

When a woman becomes pregnant she carries the baby inside of her for nine months, and during that time her and the baby are one. The umbilical cord is connected from the mother to the baby. The baby receives all the nutrients from the mother. They are one at that time. They have to go everywhere together. Even when the mother experiences stress, anger, bitterness, and other things, the baby will be affected.

Once the baby is born, the mother and the baby are still connected together, because of the umbilical cord.  There is a procedure that has to be done to separate the two. The umbilical cord has to be cut, and when this happens the baby can begin its new life.  I think that this is a great example of what God is trying to show us about being soul tied.

You have to cut and sever all old ties before you start your new life. You can see the importance in severing the spiritual umbilical cord from those in the past. As long as you are connected in the soul with someone from the past, it is hard to move forward.

The Holy Spirit has told me that so many single people want to get married, but they are not ready because they have to get themselves prepared for the bridegroom, and the most important thing is getting rid of the old and allow the new to come forth. If you go into a marriage with your past not put behind and all the ties severed, the enemy will try to bring them back.

Let’s say that you were married and your spouse started cheating on you, he or she was coming home late from work, you were receiving hang up calls, and you became so suspicious of your spouses every move. You finally divorce your spouse and later you meet someone else and you decide to marry. One night your spouse is late coming home and the phone rings and it is a hang up.  The devil starts putting thoughts in your mind that your spouse is cheating on you just like the other one did and he goes on and on. By the time your spouse walks in you are in a rage.  You start accusing them of all the things your ex- spouse did to you.  Can you see what is happening here? You are repeating your past, because you had not released the other person from your soul. It is a never-ending cycle if it is not dealt with. You can try to deal with it in the natural; by seeing counselors, trying to forget, or by even getting a divorce but those are only temporary, it is to be dealt with in the spiritual realm.

2 Cor 10:3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:

2 Cor 10:4  (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)

2 Cor 10:5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;

Eph 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

We must keep ourselves connected to Jesus at all times. He will never leave or forsake you. You may separate yourself from Him, but nothing can separate you from the love of God. He is always waiting to help you walk in the freedom that Jesus died for you to have.

Phil 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,

Phil 3:14 I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Phil 3:15 Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in any thing ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.

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